We have our court date, folks!!
May 13, 2008.
In the words of my Mom: "Woah. This is really happening!"
Yes, it is! Praise the Lord!
At court, the judge will determine that we have met the requirements and international regulations for adoption and that Tinsaye is indeed an orphan eligible for adoption. He issues the adoption decree and Tinsaye becomes our legal child.
This is largely a "technical" aspect of the adoption as all the approvals and everything have already taken place, but all the appropriate papers must end up together in the courtroom on this day for the judge to see. If the appropriate papers and people do not appear on that day, then our court case will be delayed until they do. This is the hardest part of the wait.
We will travel 3-5 weeks after we pass court.
27 For the LORD Almighty has purposed, and who can thwart him? (Isaiah 14:27)
13 Yes, and from ancient days I am he.
No one can deliver out of my hand.
When I act, who can reverse it?" (Isaiah 43:13)
skip to main |
skip to sidebar
AAI's Layla House and Wanna House are located in Ethiopia's capital city, Addis Ababa
1 John 4:19 says: "We love because He first loved us." Our hope is that our adoption will not be an event for our family alone. We pray that you will join us on this journey, beginning with this blog, and share in the many trials and triumphs that surely lie ahead. This is a journey that we are only capable of because of the great love our God has for us, and for His children the world over. Welcome ...
Promises
Isaiah 43:5: "Do not be afraid, for I am with you; I will bring your children from the east and gather you from the west."
Philippians 4:19: “And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.”
Philippians 4:19: “And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.”
Ethiopia
AAI's Layla House and Wanna House are located in Ethiopia's capital city, Addis Ababa
Local Time, Addis Ababa, Ethiopia
Why Ethiopia?
*Ethiopia is a beautiful landscape and a country rich in culture, history and heritage
*Ethiopia is an ancient Christian nation, named in the Bible as Axum
*As a culture, Ethiopians value their children and love them with a love that sometimes transcends our understanding
*One in ten children die before their first birthday
* One in six children die before their fifth birthday
* 44% of the population of Ethiopia is under 15 years old
* 60% of children in Ethiopia are stunted due to malnutrition
* The median age in Ethiopia is 17.8 years; the average life span is 37 years
* Half the children in Ethiopia will never attend school; 88% will never attend secondary school
* Ethiopia has the highest HIV/AIDS population in the world
* There are 4.8 million orphans in Ethiopia; 1.2 million children have been orphaned by AIDS alone
* Ethiopia’s doctor to children ratio is 1 to 24,000
* In the 1980's one million Ethiopians died of starvation
* Drought struck the country again from 2000-2002 (1st year no crops, 2nd year no seeds, 3rd year no animals)
* Only 24% of households have access to safe drinking water
* 82% of the population survives on less than 1 dollar a day
* Coffee prices (Ethiopia’s only major export) fell 40-60% from 1998-2002
* Per capita, Ethiopia receives less aid than any country in Africa
* In 1993, after 30 long years of war, Eritrea broke from Ethiopia and became an independent nation leaving Ethiopia landlocked without any major seafaring ports
(adapted from a Yahoo group web posting and Unicef-Ethiopia)
*Ethiopia is an ancient Christian nation, named in the Bible as Axum
*As a culture, Ethiopians value their children and love them with a love that sometimes transcends our understanding
*One in ten children die before their first birthday
* One in six children die before their fifth birthday
* 44% of the population of Ethiopia is under 15 years old
* 60% of children in Ethiopia are stunted due to malnutrition
* The median age in Ethiopia is 17.8 years; the average life span is 37 years
* Half the children in Ethiopia will never attend school; 88% will never attend secondary school
* Ethiopia has the highest HIV/AIDS population in the world
* There are 4.8 million orphans in Ethiopia; 1.2 million children have been orphaned by AIDS alone
* Ethiopia’s doctor to children ratio is 1 to 24,000
* In the 1980's one million Ethiopians died of starvation
* Drought struck the country again from 2000-2002 (1st year no crops, 2nd year no seeds, 3rd year no animals)
* Only 24% of households have access to safe drinking water
* 82% of the population survives on less than 1 dollar a day
* Coffee prices (Ethiopia’s only major export) fell 40-60% from 1998-2002
* Per capita, Ethiopia receives less aid than any country in Africa
* In 1993, after 30 long years of war, Eritrea broke from Ethiopia and became an independent nation leaving Ethiopia landlocked without any major seafaring ports
(adapted from a Yahoo group web posting and Unicef-Ethiopia)
How Much Does Adoption Cost?
One of the most frequent questions we get is: "How much does adoption cost?"
Philosophically, the first answer to this question is that adoption, by its very nature, will have cost our child everything. Our child will have suffered more in his short life than we have ever, and, by God's grace, hopefully ever will. Our child, through the lens of three, four or perhaps five years of childhood, will have witnessed the death of his parents; will have perhaps been forced to wander the streets for food and shelter; will perhaps have been taken in by a stranger and then dropped in an orphanage where there is no familiar sound, smell or smile -- he will have experienced the kind of fear that causes you to close your eyes to shut out the desperate world around him. Adoption will have cost him everything.
I've heard several people comment that our child is so "lucky" to be adopted by our family or how "good" we are to be "doing this." I understand the heart of these comments -- and honestly, I think before I really started learning about children who have been orphaned, I probably would have had the same thoughts -- but when we stop to think about it, NO child is lucky to be adopted, because to be adopted one must first be orphaned.
What adoption is, however, is God's hand of love and grace and mercy on a child who, through no fault of their own, has lived in the depths of our fallen world where tragedy and death are realities. Adoption has nothing to do with US and it has everything to do with God. This is not a story of what WE are doing. It is a story of what GOD is doing. God loves this child SO much that He is giving him a second family. For reasons I do not necessarily understand, God has chosen us to be part of HIS plan for HIS child. As a result, God is putting HIS love in our hearts for HIS child. We will love him as our own. But he is not lucky and we are not good. We are, however, both loved beyond measure by our Father in Heaven and we are being used by Him to fulfill His perfect plan for us.
Now, before you get frustrated with me, I understand that most people are asking about our financial cost, however, and the answer to that question is: "a lot." :-) Since we are being very open about our Ethiopian adoption, I thought I would go ahead and outline how the fees are broken out:
Initial Application Fee: $200
Homestudy Fee: $1400 + $200 for the update we needed
Immigration Fees: $685
AAI Agency Fee: $2000
Ethiopia Country Fee: $6000 (for one child, 7-9 years old; $2000 is paid with dossier submission and $4000 is paid after the adoption is finalized in Ethiopian court)
Travel: $7522
Total: $18,007
As I've posted before we have never had this entire sum sitting in our savings account. To God's glory alone we have had the needed amounts available in our savings account each time a fee has been required. (We have made it through the first part of the country fee.) We have gratefully and humbly received gifts from friends, family and even people we don't know or haven't met! No gift has ever been too small and each one has come at precisely the time when we needed some help to meet one of these fee deadlines. We continue to walk in faith that God will use people, organizations and opportunities to provide each amount as it is required according to HIS timeline.
Philosophically, the first answer to this question is that adoption, by its very nature, will have cost our child everything. Our child will have suffered more in his short life than we have ever, and, by God's grace, hopefully ever will. Our child, through the lens of three, four or perhaps five years of childhood, will have witnessed the death of his parents; will have perhaps been forced to wander the streets for food and shelter; will perhaps have been taken in by a stranger and then dropped in an orphanage where there is no familiar sound, smell or smile -- he will have experienced the kind of fear that causes you to close your eyes to shut out the desperate world around him. Adoption will have cost him everything.
I've heard several people comment that our child is so "lucky" to be adopted by our family or how "good" we are to be "doing this." I understand the heart of these comments -- and honestly, I think before I really started learning about children who have been orphaned, I probably would have had the same thoughts -- but when we stop to think about it, NO child is lucky to be adopted, because to be adopted one must first be orphaned.
What adoption is, however, is God's hand of love and grace and mercy on a child who, through no fault of their own, has lived in the depths of our fallen world where tragedy and death are realities. Adoption has nothing to do with US and it has everything to do with God. This is not a story of what WE are doing. It is a story of what GOD is doing. God loves this child SO much that He is giving him a second family. For reasons I do not necessarily understand, God has chosen us to be part of HIS plan for HIS child. As a result, God is putting HIS love in our hearts for HIS child. We will love him as our own. But he is not lucky and we are not good. We are, however, both loved beyond measure by our Father in Heaven and we are being used by Him to fulfill His perfect plan for us.
Now, before you get frustrated with me, I understand that most people are asking about our financial cost, however, and the answer to that question is: "a lot." :-) Since we are being very open about our Ethiopian adoption, I thought I would go ahead and outline how the fees are broken out:
Initial Application Fee: $200
Homestudy Fee: $1400 + $200 for the update we needed
Immigration Fees: $685
AAI Agency Fee: $2000
Ethiopia Country Fee: $6000 (for one child, 7-9 years old; $2000 is paid with dossier submission and $4000 is paid after the adoption is finalized in Ethiopian court)
Travel: $7522
Total: $18,007
As I've posted before we have never had this entire sum sitting in our savings account. To God's glory alone we have had the needed amounts available in our savings account each time a fee has been required. (We have made it through the first part of the country fee.) We have gratefully and humbly received gifts from friends, family and even people we don't know or haven't met! No gift has ever been too small and each one has come at precisely the time when we needed some help to meet one of these fee deadlines. We continue to walk in faith that God will use people, organizations and opportunities to provide each amount as it is required according to HIS timeline.
Adoption Related Books
- The Holy Bible
- There Is No Me Without You - Melissa Fay Green
- The Strength of Mercy - Jan Beazely
- I'm Chocolate, You're Vanilla - Marguerite A. Wright
- Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew - Sherrie Eldridge
Adoption Related Links
About Me
- Julie
- I am a 32 year old stay at home Mom, married to my husband of 12 years and with four biological children. My passion for orphans began as a tiny seed that God planted in my heart when I was 14 years old during a two-week trip to Jamaica. On that trip, I saw the world through new eyes and recognized the devastating poverty in which the developing world lives. Since then and especially in the last five years, my heart for orphans has grown from a compassion for the suffering to knowing with certainty that God alone put love in our hearts for a specific child we do not yet know. It is by God's mercy and grace alone that we are brought to experience this miracle called adoption.
Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress
James 1:27
James 1:27
6 comments:
Oh! Oh my good gravy! Oh my goodness I'm nearly in tears that this is actually happening for you.
Am I nuts? Maybe to those that aren't pregnant, the pregnancy seems to have flown by, whereas time has dragged for the mother and father. It seems to me that this adoption process has just flown!
In three weeks, Tinsaye will be officially your child. WOW! Congratulations! =)
How long has it actually taken from start to finish for this adoption? (Not that it's finished yet, but the light is at the end of the tunnel).
So excited for you!!! It is a GREAT feeling to see things progressing so well, isn't it?!
Enjoy the journey!
Mary
(Sonlight Mom)
LOL! The quote from your mom is priceless. :0) Ethiopia, here they come!!!
Congrats! So exciting!
Congrats Mike and Julie (Catie, Abbie,Drew & Sammi) I can't wait to meet Tinsaye!! I am so excited for you!
Julie,
This is wonderful news. Congratulations and we will be in prayer for everything to go smoothly. Hold tight to your Scripture.
Robin of FL from SL.
Post a Comment