These Are Days: Just a few pics of our new family ...

Monday, July 28, 2008

Just a few pics of our new family ...

There are SO many pictures to share. Here are just a few:

On the way home from the airport -

Brothers -

Our first breakfast together -

First ride on the tractor with Daddy -

First bike ride -

I will share pictures from the trip as I go back and journal a bit, day by day.

12 comments:

Terri said...: Julie, it brings tears to my eyes!! I just don't have words to explain how I feel for you right now! I love you!!

Terri
call when things calm down a bit!; July 28, 2008 at 8:48 AM
Andrea said...: My heart is swelling SO wonderfully huge for your family right now!

What an amazing, amazing, amazing journey your family is on...

God is so incredibly good.

Andrea; July 28, 2008 at 9:55 AM
Jules said...: Praise God!! What a blessing!!

Congratulations!!; July 28, 2008 at 10:38 AM
Missus Wookie said...: I love the smile on his face - what a gorgeous little boy you have been blessed to love!

Thanks for opening your blog up to share I appreciate it :); July 28, 2008 at 12:21 PM
Linda said...: Love seeing your family! Brought big smiles to my face! Can't wait to read more about your trip and keep the pictures coming.

(mompotter); July 28, 2008 at 12:26 PM
gwenschott said...: WELCOME HOME! And congratulations! All the kids look so happy! Especially your new son!! I can't wait to read all about your trip once you get all settled back in.; July 28, 2008 at 12:27 PM
Mandi @ Life Your Way said...: There are no words – can you believe that you are here? It seems like just yesterday you were wishing your husband would consider adoption...and then the Holy Spirit spoke while you remained silent, and look where you are today. Your story gives me hope, and your pictures are making me cry!; July 28, 2008 at 6:49 PM
Sarah said...: Lady I am so happy and proud for your family. CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! :) Thanks for sharing such beautiful pics.; July 28, 2008 at 7:44 PM
Holly said...: Oh Julie!
I can't wait to hear the day by day journaling!
The Lord is faithful!
Holly; July 29, 2008 at 12:32 AM
Erica Peto said...: Those are great pictures - everyone looks so happy. Love the one of the boys on the couch. Welcome home and congratulations!; July 30, 2008 at 12:02 AM
Kim & Dave said...: Julie!! Brought tears to my eyes!!

I LOVE the pics of your new family together!

Continuing to pray for your adjustments, too!; August 7, 2008 at 12:33 PM
Keeley said...: Haha, AWESOME pictures! =); August 10, 2008 at 11:33 PM

Why Ethiopia?

*Ethiopia is a beautiful landscape and a country rich in culture, history and heritage
*Ethiopia is an ancient Christian nation, named in the Bible as Axum
*As a culture, Ethiopians value their children and love them with a love that sometimes transcends our understanding
*One in ten children die before their first birthday
* One in six children die before their fifth birthday
* 44% of the population of Ethiopia is under 15 years old
* 60% of children in Ethiopia are stunted due to malnutrition
* The median age in Ethiopia is 17.8 years; the average life span is 37 years
* Half the children in Ethiopia will never attend school; 88% will never attend secondary school
* Ethiopia has the highest HIV/AIDS population in the world
* There are 4.8 million orphans in Ethiopia; 1.2 million children have been orphaned by AIDS alone
* Ethiopia’s doctor to children ratio is 1 to 24,000
* In the 1980's one million Ethiopians died of starvation
* Drought struck the country again from 2000-2002 (1st year no crops, 2nd year no seeds, 3rd year no animals)
* Only 24% of households have access to safe drinking water
* 82% of the population survives on less than 1 dollar a day
* Coffee prices (Ethiopia’s only major export) fell 40-60% from 1998-2002
* Per capita, Ethiopia receives less aid than any country in Africa
* In 1993, after 30 long years of war, Eritrea broke from Ethiopia and became an independent nation leaving Ethiopia landlocked without any major seafaring ports

(adapted from a Yahoo group web posting and Unicef-Ethiopia)

How Much Does Adoption Cost?

One of the most frequent questions we get is: "How much does adoption cost?"

Philosophically, the first answer to this question is that adoption, by its very nature, will have cost our child everything. Our child will have suffered more in his short life than we have ever, and, by God's grace, hopefully ever will. Our child, through the lens of three, four or perhaps five years of childhood, will have witnessed the death of his parents; will have perhaps been forced to wander the streets for food and shelter; will perhaps have been taken in by a stranger and then dropped in an orphanage where there is no familiar sound, smell or smile -- he will have experienced the kind of fear that causes you to close your eyes to shut out the desperate world around him. Adoption will have cost him everything.

I've heard several people comment that our child is so "lucky" to be adopted by our family or how "good" we are to be "doing this." I understand the heart of these comments -- and honestly, I think before I really started learning about children who have been orphaned, I probably would have had the same thoughts -- but when we stop to think about it, NO child is lucky to be adopted, because to be adopted one must first be orphaned.

What adoption is, however, is God's hand of love and grace and mercy on a child who, through no fault of their own, has lived in the depths of our fallen world where tragedy and death are realities. Adoption has nothing to do with US and it has everything to do with God. This is not a story of what WE are doing. It is a story of what GOD is doing. God loves this child SO much that He is giving him a second family. For reasons I do not necessarily understand, God has chosen us to be part of HIS plan for HIS child. As a result, God is putting HIS love in our hearts for HIS child. We will love him as our own. But he is not lucky and we are not good. We are, however, both loved beyond measure by our Father in Heaven and we are being used by Him to fulfill His perfect plan for us.

Now, before you get frustrated with me, I understand that most people are asking about our financial cost, however, and the answer to that question is: "a lot." :-) Since we are being very open about our Ethiopian adoption, I thought I would go ahead and outline how the fees are broken out:

Initial Application Fee: $200

Homestudy Fee: $1400 + $200 for the update we needed

Immigration Fees: $685

AAI Agency Fee: $2000

Ethiopia Country Fee: $6000 (for one child, 7-9 years old; $2000 is paid with dossier submission and $4000 is paid after the adoption is finalized in Ethiopian court)

Travel: $7522

Total: $18,007

As I've posted before we have never had this entire sum sitting in our savings account. To God's glory alone we have had the needed amounts available in our savings account each time a fee has been required. (We have made it through the first part of the country fee.) We have gratefully and humbly received gifts from friends, family and even people we don't know or haven't met! No gift has ever been too small and each one has come at precisely the time when we needed some help to meet one of these fee deadlines. We continue to walk in faith that God will use people, organizations and opportunities to provide each amount as it is required according to HIS timeline.

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Just a few pics of our new family ...

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